A mother or father raising children without assistance from a partner can create financial difficulties. To avoid fear, frustration, and anger, consider these actions:
- Assess your situation. Determine your monthly after-tax income, monthly bills, money in savings, and money saved for retirement. Knowing these amounts will provide a starting point and foundation of where you need to go.
- Cut unnecessary spending through wiser shopping, lower household expenses, and not buying certain items that you can do without.
- Plan for additional income. Consider your current work situation, a new job, a raise or promotion, overtime pay, a second, part-time job, freelance work, or items that you might sell.
- Seek extra income sources. Additional income can result from skills and interests you may overlook. Consider new job training, or starting your own business. More income will also mean additional savings for financial goals.
- Create an emergency fund. To be ready for financial struggles (job loss, home or car repairs, medical expenses), have a cash cushion to cover three to six months of expenses.
- Save for retirement. Additional amounts might be needed for long-term financial security if you had to split retirement funds with an ex-spouse or partner. Budget a monthly amount for your retirement fund.
You may feel overwhelmed at times, but don’t get discouraged. Start saving a small amount, such as one percent of your income for emergencies and one percent (or more) for retirement. Then in a few months, increase the percent of income you are saving.
Continually track your spending, and review your budget and financial goals. This action is especially vital if you are self-employed with a fluctuating income. Save more in higher-income months to be ready for lower-income months.
Also, lower your expectations to match the reality of your income situation and household needs. Finally, make a commitment to work hard, not give up, and support your children, emotionally and physically.
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- Have students talk to single parents for additional financial suggestions.
- Have students create a plan for specific money management actions for single parents.
- What are reasons that single parents might encounter financial difficulties?
- Describe shopping and income actions a single parent might take to reduce spending and increase income.